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My husband is 63 and was dx with PCA and dementia. He was ok in beginning with taking Donepezil and Mementine. I had to titrate him off because he would not take anymore. Neurologist suggested a patch. Went ok for a couple days now refusing to take. He believes nothing is wrong with him. How do I get him to take medication? Doctor wants to also put him back on Memantine.

My dad refused in Hispital they said there’s always a liquid format and put it in a little juice or yogurt
do u take vitamins or pills - try to make it like it’s not a big deal n show you’re taking as well to protect yourself
as for the I’m ok
id say yes you are and we want to keep you that way
Maybe have a tea waiting - quick- do we can have a nice cup of tea lol
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My husband does the same, it's a problem because some of the meds must be taken with food. I usually don't insist and try later when he's calm, offering the pill again with something he likes. Sometimes I need to take a pill too (multivitamin, C, or a piece of bread rolled up) to show him it's safe. I need to keep an eye on him because sometimes he spits them out, but it's rare. It works for the moment. Ask your doctor or pharmacist for advice too. Good luck, I'd rather pill the cat.
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My husband has other medical issues and has not formally been diagnosed with dementia/Alzheimers. He decided about 3 months ago that he was done taking his meds. Despite everything that we, his family, and his primary doctor said, he refused. Then, he had an adverse reaction from stopping one of his meds, and he remembered what his meds actually do. He didn't want to go through that again, so he started taking them again. Sometimes, you just have to sit on the sidelines and watch them so that you are there when they need you.
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If allowed to crush his meds, mix them with a tablespoon of chocolate syrup or a puff of RediWhip. I've never seen meds turned down when presented this way.
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Reply to Fawnby
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Maybe he doesn't like the way the meds make him feel.
Or, is he just stubbornly refusing to acknowledge his diagnosis?

I'm so sorry. Ask the doctor if there is a form of medication which can be added to his food or drink without altering the taste. Otherwise, you really can't force him against his will.

Here is an excerpt I found online from the MayoClinic.org:
There are no treatments to cure or slow the progression of posterior cortical atrophy. Some research suggests that medicines used to slow the progression of Alzheimer's disease may help manage symptoms of posterior cortical atrophy. However, this hasn't been proved, and more research is needed.

And this from Medlineplus.gov:
Memantine (Namenda) is a prescription NMDA receptor antagonist used to improve cognitive function and daily functioning in patients with moderate to severe Alzheimer’s disease. It does not cure the disease but helps manage symptoms like confusion and memory loss. Common side effects include dizziness, headache, constipation, and drowsiness.
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Reply to CaringWifeAZ
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It is legal to decline mental health meds in the US.

I'd retry in 4 weeks.
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Some meds are available in liquid form and some you can crush to be mixed in his food. Check with the doctor and pharmacist.
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Reply to lealonnie1
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Is he having bad side effects that might be lessened by a change in meds? Or is he just stubborn. It seems like part of dementia is thinking everyone else has the problem and not the patient. I’m sorry you are going through this, 63 seems so young for dementia.
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